Examples of initial emails for online dating

25-Aug-2017 10:45

Perhaps it may be worthwhile to meet once again and explore the many ways in which I could benefit your company?

If you agree, I can be reached at _______________(PHONE/E-MAIL).

Once again, if you are looking for a performance-oriented person to fill a position in your _______________(DEPARTMENT), my experience is broad-based and will provide a valuable contribution to the right position.

I am a self-motivated individual seeking a challenging position that utilizes my strengths and abilities.

You might think it would be more likely with the dudes whose initial messages are already a little sketchy, but it’s not uncommon to also receive abusive responses to rejection from the guy whose first message was polite, unassuming and/or charming.

Given that, it’s just the smarter option for women who don’t want to field a bunch of hostile and insulting messages not to respond to people to say “thanks but I don’t think we’re the right match.” Now, it’s certainly true that some job applicants also respond to rejection with hostility, but (a) they’re far less numerous than in online dating, (b) the intensity of the hostility seems to be lower, and (c) it’s part of the job in that situation to deal with the occasional whacked out response to rejection.

If used in the right setting, it can work very well.

An interview follow up letter can be incredibly powerful.

The reason why I suggest the email follow-up is because it makes it easier for the Hiring Manager to reply (either good or bad).

If you are not sure which one of the four to use then I would go with this one.

It basically is asking for information as it relates to the open position that you interviewed for.

If used in the right setting, it can work very well.

An interview follow up letter can be incredibly powerful.

The reason why I suggest the email follow-up is because it makes it easier for the Hiring Manager to reply (either good or bad).

If you are not sure which one of the four to use then I would go with this one.

It basically is asking for information as it relates to the open position that you interviewed for.

(Not that they always do, of course, but there’s more of an expectation of it.) But a really big part of it is the reality that most women doing online dating quickly learn that if they send polite rejections to men who contact them, they’ll receive an enormous number of hostile and even abusive responses.